tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post5090817204482469252..comments2023-10-25T16:16:52.110+05:30Comments on A SLICE OF MY SOUL: The Sick Sad Indian WeddingTanvihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-54074667958385321492011-08-06T23:42:45.511+05:302011-08-06T23:42:45.511+05:30Honestly, I feel I wouldn't know the real inte...Honestly, I feel I wouldn't know the real intentions even if I were her mother! God knows best...<br /><br />What we see as a murder might as well be an impulsive action in self defence...but if the jury can't make that out, it is not their fault....because we are humans, and we have limitations...<br /><br />but since, we have not been handed over with a responsibility to judge people, ITanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-79013845298343763062011-08-06T21:39:30.038+05:302011-08-06T21:39:30.038+05:30Yes, I completely agree with you missy.
It all co...Yes, I completely agree with you missy. <br />It all comes down to the intentions. But how does one perceive them? If a person kills another person, there are multiple probabilities of why he did that. Is he a <br />cold blooded killer or a professional hitman etc. Behind every death sentence given by the jury, if you remove the motive, they all become killers.<br /><br />But given that, would &xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-50898345932546738972011-08-06T21:28:57.017+05:302011-08-06T21:28:57.017+05:30dear xyzandme, ofcourse, I don't mind explaini...dear xyzandme, ofcourse, I don't mind explaining that....<br /><br />I meant to say that sometimes, actions and behavior don't seem to match the intentions....and intentions matter the most.<br /><br />The farthest of people see actions....<br />The closest of them understand intentions...<br /><br />Don't you think?Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04049920938900712338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-18488576539401623992011-08-04T19:49:52.514+05:302011-08-04T19:49:52.514+05:30Explain. If you don't mind to.Explain. If you don't mind to.xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-56514035070114984232011-08-04T19:23:46.553+05:302011-08-04T19:23:46.553+05:30It's not a thumb rule though....It's not a thumb rule though....Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-82009845118365748212011-08-04T19:14:52.230+05:302011-08-04T19:14:52.230+05:30True.
But wouldn't someones actions and behavi...True.<br />But wouldn't someones actions and behavior reflect that what is going in their mind?xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-91480016911970037282011-08-04T18:56:12.811+05:302011-08-04T18:56:12.811+05:30thnx xyzandme for the appreciation as well as the ...thnx xyzandme for the appreciation as well as the clarification....<br />I don't completely disagree with you on the 'time span' factor....but I won't judge anybody on these factors alone till I actually know what's going on inside his/her mind...Right? There are all kinds of situations and complications in this World that we cannot even think of.Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-48877345612366473132011-08-04T18:17:45.332+05:302011-08-04T18:17:45.332+05:30That is actually very well put.
But you missed ou...That is actually very well put.<br /><br />But you missed out an important term of what I said in my second comment.<br />"Time span"<br /><br />If two people fall in love, you confess those feelings to each other, and after a while you break off and express those feelings to someone else and so on.<br />The amount of time spent in between these two relationships is important.<br />Don&xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-42419850566596714542011-08-04T14:46:43.045+05:302011-08-04T14:46:43.045+05:30Esha, I'm glad you liked the post....and your ...Esha, I'm glad you liked the post....and your words completely match my thoughts...tragedy, indeed...<br /><br />[I am curious about your profile name...are you associated with an NGO for the blind or something?]Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-88070559055428655182011-08-04T14:42:43.348+05:302011-08-04T14:42:43.348+05:30xyzandme,
The number of boyfriends/girlfriends he...xyzandme,<br /><br />The number of boyfriends/girlfriends he/she has had is actually proportional to the number of times he/she has tried to find his/her true love<br /><br />Thanks for visiting and expressing your viewsTanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-1267412472965133182011-08-04T14:36:35.610+05:302011-08-04T14:36:35.610+05:30CRD, you have a sweet little story there....no com...CRD, you have a sweet little story there....no complications :)<br />Good Luck...<br /><br />I am sorry I read the comment so late...I hope the competition is still alive....quickly hopping on to the link to see :DTanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-15903362829201690312011-08-04T14:34:13.987+05:302011-08-04T14:34:13.987+05:30Anonymous, those were some significant views...
S...Anonymous, those were some significant views...<br /><br />Sure, a man has to build a career and his lady would want him to do that....but then the girl should be allowed to 'wait' till both of them are ready to get married. Right?<br /><br />"its way easier n less complicated to go fr arranged marriage"....not sure about this....getting to know, love and live with a 'Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779658083570812899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-60974562627522651332011-07-31T23:58:29.619+05:302011-07-31T23:58:29.619+05:30Multiple?
Be specific, coz multiple can mean 2, b...Multiple? <br />Be specific, coz multiple can mean 2, but it may also mean 100.<br /><br />I am for real and reality is what I am talking about. <br /><br />A girl or a guy who have had 2-3 relationships is definitely 'better' than one who have had twenty in the same time span.xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-74515685316943869832011-07-31T23:54:31.341+05:302011-07-31T23:54:31.341+05:30xyzandme: Are you for real??? I mean.. easy. despe...xyzandme: Are you for real??? I mean.. easy. desperate and unstable? Because they had multiple relationships? WOW!!! <br /><br />On another note. Tanvi, LOVED ur post.. so true! And after centuries, it continues to be true.. thats the tragedy.Esha - People for the Blindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06233966583422975983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-77482667104523681952011-07-31T23:03:45.180+05:302011-07-31T23:03:45.180+05:30“Girls with Boyfriends are spoilt and wasted"...“Girls with Boyfriends are spoilt and wasted"<br /><br />Not completely wrong.<br /><br />But one shouldnt be biased towards the girls.Include guys in the equation.<br /><br />The number of boyfriends/girlfriends he/she have had. That number is proportional to three things:<br />1. He/She is easy.<br />2. He/She is desperate.<br />3. He/She is unstable.xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-83866794373643005522011-07-25T20:07:15.282+05:302011-07-25T20:07:15.282+05:30Nice post.
Well my family has a history of inter-...Nice post.<br /><br />Well my family has a history of inter-caste and inter-religious marriages...and i thought my parents would accept the same in my case<br /><br />Imagine my horror when my parents told me strictly that they wanted a Catholic girl from Mangalore only :P<br /><br />Anyway, I'm now gettin married to a catholic girl (not coz they forced me...its more coz i never found a gal :CRDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14040468252329133910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-7809460250086144942011-07-25T01:34:32.244+05:302011-07-25T01:34:32.244+05:30*Feel*FeelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-80446882729857228092011-07-25T01:20:27.561+05:302011-07-25T01:20:27.561+05:30What i fell is,,,
In todays world women are indep...What i fell is,,,<br /><br />In todays world women are independant n thus are not as adjustin n accomodatin resultin in so many divorces. In such scenario if da couple are aware der marriage is acc their wishes, they will try harder to sustain it as opposed to arranged marriages.<br /><br />Honestly I feel its way easier n less complicated to go fr arranged marriage. But if a person does fall in Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-22719003199600054092011-07-25T00:48:55.723+05:302011-07-25T00:48:55.723+05:30"""Stranger, there are undoubtedly ..."""Stranger, there are undoubtedly a large number of successful arranged marriages and there's nothing bad about it."""""<br /><br />Why Strange......Its Truth.....<br /><br />love your post......But things differ with place to place, Economic conditions, education structure, Family background. like if someone have money he will definitely give to his Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-46262728225402006922011-07-04T23:27:46.379+05:302011-07-04T23:27:46.379+05:30Superb post :))...Totally agree :)
I feel it'...Superb post :))...Totally agree :)<br /><br />I feel it's strange to get married with the person you don't know completely. If love doesn't happen to you, at least enough time should be given to know the person you are going to marry.. <br />I liked the sentence-' Inter-caste? Make faces. Inter-religion? Faint.'...hahahah..so true !pRasadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15187520055879315851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-84583153393093895032011-05-15T21:55:35.484+05:302011-05-15T21:55:35.484+05:30Felicity, it's been on my mind and it feels be...Felicity, it's been on my mind and it feels better after blurting it all out. Thanks for visiting, reading, supporting and liking :)<br />Also thanks for the compliment on dp. *blush*<br /><br />Stranger, there are undoubtedly a large number of successful arranged marriages and there's nothing bad about it. Only, the logic isn't too clear to me, especially in cases where it is forced.Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04049920938900712338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-27658345820323521182011-05-15T13:42:42.747+05:302011-05-15T13:42:42.747+05:30Hmm... A very good post. But not all arranged marr...Hmm... A very good post. But not all arranged marriages are bad. <br /><br />I have 2 girls and I dont have any problem in getting them married to good guys from another caste, if it is okay with his family. <br /><br />People like me too exist here... so dont blame all Indians..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23717939.post-6893080868366369452011-05-15T05:15:14.240+05:302011-05-15T05:15:14.240+05:30Hmmm. This is something that's been on my mind...Hmmm. This is something that's been on my mind since quite some time now. You've put it exceptionally well. Enjoyed reading.<br /><br />You should write more often. :)<br /><br />Nice dp.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16031444311527204994noreply@blogger.com